As feminists we are more than aware that the way we organise the ‘private’ has an impact on how the ‘public’ sphere is shaped, which in its turn shapes the ‘private’/domestic. All political actors – from right to left – have a view and in one way or the other want to regulate what happens in our homes. Who should take care of children, who can sleep with who, distinct ideas on why and what ‘families’ are for, etc.